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Goal Setting and Resistance in the Creative Process
Discipline or Willingness?
As an artist and art career consultant, I encounter goal setting issues
daily. When it comes to goal setting for artists, the word "discipline"
can present problems. Webster defines the word in terms like: a systematic
method to obtain obedience; submission to authority; rules
intended to train or correct. For many of us, whether artists or in
other creative professions deeploy involved with the creative process,
discipline can be like taking a dose of caster oil. Pushing
ourselves into action, we "force it down" in the attempt to fuel our
creativity and reach our goals. But this approach is problematic.
Discipline is born of resistance. In itself, resistance is normal
and certainly not a character flaw. In fact, it's is an inherent link
in the cyclical chain of one's
creative process. In life, we all must move through varying degrees
of resistance in order to make space for the kind of creative inspiration
leading to that delicious natural high we call "flow." As we learn to
move through resistances effectively, we find ourselves developing creative
momentum, an important ingredient for goal setting and for reaching
goals successfully.
Why then, does discipline so often fail us? Why does it bring on a tangle
of inner conflict and stress and that hinders momentum and flow,
or even stops our creativity in its tracks? I believe the answer is
that discipline is often applied in opposition to resistance. When we
oppose our resistance, we compound tension and perfectionism. We get
mired in expectations and too focused on outcomes. When this happens, we miss the
joy of creating in the moment. The discipline that was intended to bring
mastery and success in our creative process, in fact, brings discontent
and fatigue.
Since the word "discipline" is highly charged in regards to the creative
process, I prefer to use the word "willingness" to help describe a new
approach. Willingness can be cultivated, with patience. It takes a little
time, but the rewards are great indeed. In a state of willingness,
our tensions loosen and our creative joy increases.
Here's how it works:
In goal setting, often resistance sets in. When it does, we choose to
call upon the "awareness mind." The inner eye simply observes the resistance:
non-judgmentally, creating a soft "container" for it. Like a meditation
in motion, the awareness mind accepts resistance with no struggle. Ironically,
acceptance of the resistance will loosen and melt it. We push nothing
away. We gently shift our focus back to the task at hand, while allowing
the resistance to dissolve. We waste no time pushing it away, and we
avoid a draining struggle. The resistance is allowed to simply float
off and dissolve on its own.
As we practice this shifting process, we notice resistance floating
off more often and easily. It no longer devolves into a pesky demon
that gains control over our creative endeavors. Conflict, life stress
and guilt begin to fade. Goal setting in our creative process takes
on a more natural rhythm. Resistance is replaced by more calm, and more flow.
We begin to recover long lost pangs of creative inspiration upon
waking in the morning. We define career "success" on our own terms.
We focus and take action more readily, engaging our creativity
moment by moment. If we stay loyal to this practice, one day we will notice
that the discipline associated with goal setting in our creative process
has become...our willingness.
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